Things my son teaches me
My son now is 4.5 years old. He came into care at 4.5 months and we adopted him on this 3rd birthday. As a parent, and I mean parent , I don't consider my son anything else but my son. When it comes to kids in foster care I have mixed emotions and continue to learn from my son. Recently, my son asked me if he going to move again, would I always be his mom and said he had nightmares he was moving. I was taken aback because he had been with us since 14 months and how could I child that young remember? Well, when it comes to trauma there is no age limit. When he made this statement it broke my heart because, first no child should have to ask this question. A part of me stands with services for the family to stay so no child feels the loss of family and has the feelings of belonging. Now to my personal experience, if my son had stayed with his birth mom/family how much more trauma would he had experienced? His birth family didn't do the services, rejected placement, didn't show up for court dates. We experienced during his TPR (termination of parental rights) family members that wanted him, then didn't want him, didn't want communication with us prior for any information on him. Rights were terminated voluntarily, so in my personal experience my heart breaks for what my son has to go through. We continue to learn, love and grow. He didn't have a happy beginning, but he will have a happy ending. I thank god I had a wonderful FRW (family resource worker) who thought we would be a good placement for an emergency that came up. My son was an emergency placement. His goal was reunification, which it should be. When you take in a foster child you are there for the child during the time that is needed.
My son has taught me patience, never give up and there is always another way. With the help of his therapists, Early Intervention and services that were found with his social worker, my son continues to flourish. I have seen him struggle with this PTSD, aggression, impulsivity, but he continue to grow and overcome. He has taught me what real love is and where real strength begins. He no longer exhibits extreme RAD (reactive attachment disorder) high and lows. I will continue to advocate for children in care. I have been foster, adoptive and kinship and have advocated for each. Its not about adoption, its about the child. I hope more children can stay with their family and receive services to keep the family unit whole, everyone wants to feel like they belong. But in the end, the child comes first. Although removing a child from home should be the last option, it has to be option for those children that need it. I can only pray that I find the right words to explain to my son regarding how his journey started and that my love for him strengthens him and his does for me , every day of my life.
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Terry Alves-Hunter, Foster Parent Advocate
Not in my womb, always in my heart
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Her research work has varied across her career and includes work on the effects of both in utero cocaine exposure and violence on early childhood and parenting and recently she has been a leader in developing the Center for Family Navigation at BU, a national leader in promoting and developing the use of navigators to support families of children with developmental disabilities.
Dr. Augustyn is co-editor of The Zuckerman Parker Handbook of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics for Primary Care and the section co-editor for Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics for the online journal UpToDate. She currently sits on the sub board of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics at the American Board of Pediatrics and is on the Board of Directors of the Society of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics. She is also on the American Academy of Pediatrics planning committee for Practical Pediatrics, their national CME Program.
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Dr. Frank has written numerous scientific articles and papers. Her work has focused on breastfeeding promotion, women and children affected by substance use, nutrition among homeless pregnant women and children, Failure to Thrive, food insecurity, and the “heat or eat” phenomenon, the dilemma that many low-income families face in the winter when they have to make the critical choice between heating their homes and feeding their children. She is especially proud of successfully mentoring many pre-professional and professional colleagues.
Cited as a respected authority in her fields, Dr. Frank has frequently given testimony to state and federal legislative committees on the growing problem of hunger and associated hardships in the United States and its effects on our youngest children. She has recently been nominated by Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi to the newly established National Commission on Hunger. She is also an invited member of the Aspen’s Dialogue on Food Insecurity and Health Care Costs.
L. Kari Hironaka MD, MPH
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John Maypole, MD
Dr. Maypole completed Pediatric Residency in 1999, and Pediatric Chief Residency in 2000 following his training at Yale University School of Medicine. Dr. Maypole has consistently included primary care, medical education, and in participating in and developing innovative clinical programs for complex children and their families. Dr. Maypole served as Associate Director of the Pediatric Integrative Medicine Education Project and performing Holistic Medicine consults and medical education at Children’s Hospital from 2003-2005. In 2005, Dr. Maypole became Director of the Department of Pediatrics at the South End Community Health Center while serving as an attending physician for the Comprehensive Care Program (CCP) in the Department of Pediatrics at Boston Medical Center. CCP is a multi-disciplinary team of providers who provide enhanced and coordinated primary care to the most medically complex patients and higher risk families in the Pediatric Department, including ex-premature infants, children with special health needs and neurodevelopmental disabilities. In February of 2013, Dr. Maypole came to Boston University/Boston Medical Center to work full time to develop approaches and programs to address this fast-growing segment of the pediatric population. In September of 2014, Dr. Maypole received an award from the Center for Medicare Medicaid Innovation, supporting a 3 year effort for the Massachusetts Alliance for Complex Care/4C program--a consultative, multidisciplinary care support model of care for PCPs and families of medically complex children, of which he is co-principal investigator. He is an associate professor of Pediatrics at BUSM. Dr. Maypole writes child health-related articles for a lay audience, for mainstream media and online publications.
Jenny Radesky, MD
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Arathi Reddy, DO
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Laura Sices, MD, MSDr. Sices is a board-certified Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrician at Boston Medical Center (BMC). She attended medical school at University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia, PA, completed her residency at The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia and completed her fellowship at University of Washington in Seattle, WA. Dr. Sices was on the faculty at Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital in Cleveland, OH before joining BMC in 2007. Dr. Sices’ clinical work focuses on assessment and management of children with a variety of different concerns, including developmental delays, speech and language delays and conditions, ADHD, learning disabilities and differences, and autism spectrum conditions. Her academic focus is on developmental screening and the early identification of developmental delays.
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